Inappropriate actions

ok so here is the deal.  Sometimest you have hte opportuninitie to act on someting.  But you know you should not.  So you hasve to stop youtself.  But sometimes you feel like the other party is reasponsible.  Do you know what I mean?>  I think you do.  Because everyont runs into this every now and then and you czn't help it.  But the fact of the matter is, that's likfe and until you know how to deal with it, it sucks.  For sure.  Trust me I know.  I hate shit, but sometyimes it gets thrown in your face and you like it, but i tdoesn't change a thing,